CREATING A POWERFUL
CHILDHOOD
Angela
Red River – October 2015 – August 2020
How
do we go about creating a powerful childhood for ourselves and for our
children?
What
does this mean?
Douwe
van der Zee talks and writes about childhood beginning at the moment of birth,
and how all interactions ourselves and others from then on affect (after
imprinting on a subconscious level of each human) all future contact and
connection with our outside and inside worlds.
I, too, believe that this period is very important relative to whom and
what our children eventually become, but he only hints at possible effects on
the life of our children of the pre-birth phase. It is this pre-birth back to conception time/phase/
period that I would like to investigate in much greater detail, because it is
more than an inner knowing or sense that we, including our children, are not born with clean slates, as we have been
lead to believe. There are quite a few
reasons for me saying this:
💥 We
arrive on a specific day at a specific moment in time for a reason – we have
chosen this moment specifically! Why
would that be? Astrologists would say
that we each choose specific energies with which to work in each lifetime we spend
in this 3-Dimensional school called Earth.
This implies that we have lived previous lives, in previous times –
again implying that there are uncompleted issues as well as gifts, talents and
skills we wish to bring through with us to be dealt with and/or used in this
present lifetime, once we step out of the belief (religiously imprinted) that Astrology and Reincarnation
is evil.
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There
is an ever-growing body of evidence that more than suggests that every feeling
and emotion experienced by the mother (and probably the father) from the moment
of conception impacts and imprints onto this apparently clean “slate” and
psyche of our unborn children. These
feelings and emotions are generated from all manner of interactions with the
outside world. Torkum Saraydarian in his
book – “Women – Torch of the Future” – states emphatically that women should,
under no circumstance, be exposed to any level or form of stress during the
pregnancy or gestation (growing) of their babies.
This also
includes:
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How
each women or her partner, for that matter, feels about actually being pregnant,
i.e. – does she/he want to have a baby right now (does it honestly fit into
their present life circumstances?)
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Does
the baby perceive that it is welcome in and by its family of choice? Why would one need to ask this question? Well, as an example, perhaps a baby is
growing on the womb of a drug addict or alcoholic. How welcome do you think it would feel in
comparison with a baby growing in the womb of a mother who eats fresh unrefined
foods and drinks plenty of fresh mountain/spring water? And this is just an example of the physical
part of a mother’s being! What about the
emotional, mental and spiritual toxins residing in most of our bodies???
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We
can go back a bit further - to Conception.
What were the feelings of BOTH parents/partners at the moment when their
two bodies came together to put the sperm in contact with the egg? What were the thoughts at the moment of
orgasm? Was there mutual consent, or was
the women being violated, or the man, for that matter? Were they under the influence of drugs or
alcohol? The list can go on forever.
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Going
back still further, what has each parent/partner put into their bodies? And, by bodies, I mean, not only the physical
body, but also the emotional, mental and spiritual bodies/natures, i.e.
everything that both parents have been imprinted with since their own
conceptions! This is why it doesn’t make
sense to use a fertility bank to obtain sperm to fertilize a woman’s egg/s!
The
about points serve to show how impossible it is for anyone to be born with a
clear/clean slate!
Even
though most of us are unaware or do not believe that we have chosen our parents
and the circumstances we wish to experience, for whatever reason, in any
particular lifetime, it is vital for the future of humanity that we change our
minds about our old beliefs that we experience only one life here on planet
Earth, where we can do just as we please without consequence.
Even
though one may not believe in reincarnation, one’s soul has had many
experiences in human form over the preceding millennia, as well as in parallel
and alternate dimensions and universes, and this may or may not be happening at
the same time!!
Even
though we do not believe something, it does not mean that it is not true in
someone else’s reality, and vice versa, or a universal truth.
So,
whatever we physically consume; emotionally perceive and feelingly experience;
have mentally imprinted via beliefs and images into our conscious and
subconscious nature, as well as our religious beliefs, are written on the Slate
of each of our lives at the moment of our births, especially, but not only, the
trauma that is ignorantly and arrogantly perpetrated on babies and their
mothers during the actual birth process.
What is ‘written’ at that moment become filters that will unconsciously
dictate the rest of a person’s life; UNLESS and UNTIL each of us is nudged in
some way to consciously remember who we truly are – from a cosmic perspective –
so we can then begin to live our soul’s destiny!
It
has to be said there that NOTHING on our slates is written in stone, but in
order to make changes to what is written there, we have to be aware, firstly,
that we do indeed have a slate, and secondly, that we have the understanding
and, more importantly, the inner knowing that we are creators of our own
realities or universes.
Having
said all the above, where do we go from here?
Well,
the well-known singer/actress – Julie Andrews – once sang: Let’s start at the very beginning! It’s a very good place to start.
So,
in the instance, where or what is the very beginning?
Let’s
use another famous and well-used quotation, which I will paraphrase:
You
cannot create a solution to a situation/problem/issue from the same level of consciousness that created it in the first place! pp
Albert Einstein
I
relate this to the creation of our children:
We
cannot create/make your children (our Gateway to the Kingdom of Heaven) from
the level of the toxic and contaminated physical, emotional, mental and
spiritual bodies of
ourselves, carrying our ancestral baggage, especially if we are wanting to
create a better world in
which our children can live.
I do not have to tell
anyone that the way we are living physically, emotionally, mentally and
spiritually is KILLING Life on our beautiful planet. BUT, we cannot blame anyone but ourselves,
because whenever anyone of us points, blamingly, at someone or something outside
of ourselves, there are always 3 fingers pointing back at us. The LOG in our own eye is preventing us from
seeing that we have created everything outside of ourselves. OR, the log is splintering, creating our many
perceptions. It may be prudent to round
up, embrace, thank and love all these splintered projections to ourselves to
once again see the beauty of Who We Truly Are – the Suns/Sons of Gods – the
Immense Beacons of Light from Source that we always were, are and forever shall
be!
So, in order to create
Powerful Children, it is vital that we begin this journey of Re-Awakening and
Remembering (bringing all our Members/Projections back together) BACK HOME TO
OURSELVES.
It is not possible to
create beautiful clear welcome children from toxic contaminated, nearly dead,
“bodies”!
If we, as parents, are
awake and aware of our impact on our future children BEFORE we conceive them, then
the Souls Who Inhabit the vessels we grow, will have a much easier time Guiding
these Future Children to Live their True Purpose as Way Showers to the Kingdom
of Heaven here on Earth. Our Children’s
early lives need our undivided focused attention in order to make this scenario
at all possible. Our Children need US to
take OURSELVES seriously by Respecting and Loving OURSELVES first and foremost,
because until we do, we will not be able to truly Love and Respect Them and
their journeys. But, unlike Douwe van
der Zee, it is my inner knowing that our journey to Truly Loving and Respecting
Ourselves begins with a Conscious Journey of Detoxification and Renutrification
on all the levels of our bodies, as previously mentioned. The more conscious we become of what we allow
into our multi-dimensional bodies, the more we begin to Know Ourselves as LOVE
and RESPECT.
In his book, The Power of
Childhood, Douwe van der Zee assists us to dispel many outmoded ways of
thinking and being related to parenting, especially if we wants to Consciously
Parent our Children. This is a must-read
book if you are beginning to understand the impact of your own perceived
childhood on your adult life.
So, Conscious Conception,
by its very nature, needs a preparation with the intention that Conception does
not take place BEFORE all the Bodies of Both Parents are appropriately
Detoxified and Renutrified, i.e. that each parent is experiencing themselves as
LOVE and RESPECT and any other virtue they choose to Embody, to impart to their
Children.
If we are all able to do
this, the population explosion that planet Earth is experiencing will gradually
diminish and the way we treat our Earth Mother will improve as we take on the Stewardship
of Mother Earth, as opposed to being the destroyers and pillagers of this
once-luscious planet.
Each couple will ‘know’ in
their hearts when the time is right to assist a Soul to incarnate through
them. The incoming soul would already
have made itself known to you, the chosen parents, during the preconception
preparation time, and who will have welcomed the soul and ‘sealed the deal’, so
to speak. The Soul of your future Child
knows the exact Cosmic energies that it needs to fulfil its pre-planned life
experiences and purpose, so, you, as parents, will be nudged by this Soul when
the moment for conception is right. It
will all just seem to fall into place without any conscious planning!
I would now like to expand
upon Jean Liedloff’s Continuum Concept. Jean talks mainly about the time from
the moment of birth, just as Douwe van der Zee does in his book – The Power of
Childhood.
This expansion is not a
forward one; it is not really a lateral one; it is a retro-expansion, going
back to ‘time before time’ as it were; a time before our children are conceived;
to a time when we possibly felt the inspiration of a Soul wanting to incarnate
through us, a specific host couple or family.
It is time to begin
considering that there is more to having or making our children than putting the
many sperm cells of the father in the same place as the egg (ovum) of the
mother, so that conception – the beginning of a new human - can take place. This is a very separatist way of thinking;
this is where science and religion/spirituality have split. The moving away by humans from nature into
unnatural high-rise buildings and concentrated living – living close together
with unnatural noise and energetic vibrations from all manner of electronic
equipment, have changed the original way of Being to Doing.
Is it any wonder that we
no longer hear or feel the constant impulsing from a Soul who has chosen a
particular couple or family through which to find its way into this 3D world
we call Earth? And what does 3D actually
mean? And why do non-reincarnationists
think for a moment that the lifetime they are now living is the only lifetime
their eternal beings will experience on planet Earth or anywhere else in the
Cosmoverse, for that matter? And why are
there people who arrogantly and very ignorantly believe that Earth is the only
inhabited planet in the entire Multiverse or Cosmoverse? Even the most so-called primitive societies
acknowledge and embrace ‘star people’ as part of their cosmology! And what makes so-called civilized cultures
more superior to the so-called primitive societies? And even more disturbingly, why don’t most
of the Humans on planet Earth consider the soul that comes to guide the
physical body/vehicle of the gestating (growing in the womb) child from well
before the moment of conception? These
are questions that ‘need’ to be asked by Conscious Parents, as well as
Re-Awakening Ones!
The Soul’s journey of
anchoring into the physical body/vehicle has to be one of the greatest
mysteries of 3D life, yet most Hu-mans have, over time, become so disconnected
from the Oneness of All Life. And,
perhaps, this is one of those mysteries that needs to remain a mystery?! One thing I do know is that every Scorpio-born
Hu-man, like me, loves a good mystery to solve!
My own first
consciously-heard nudge or inspiration came at the age of 16, when I said to my
re-born Christian mother that there had to be something more than
Christianity. It was just totally inconceivable
to me that everyone who does not believe in Jesus as the Son of God is going to
hell! So began my journey toward
Re-Awakening, (Re-minding) and Remembering Who I Truly Am. This journey is on-going as I open myself more and more to
my Inner Nature; my Multi-dimensionality.
The concept of
multi-dimensionality is one that needs some unpacking, because it is directly
connected to energies and energy fields that surround, in the context of
conception and childbirth, the mother and soul/baby connection from before conception.
Description of the
first twelve dimensions to show where we fit in the scheme of things:
The Twelfth Dimension ~ The All
That Is; The Source
The Eleventh Dimension ~ The Seed
and Soil of Universes
The Tenth Dimension ~ The Truth;
The Cosmoverse and Its Parameters
The Ninth Dimension ~ The
Creation of Form and Hierarchies
The Eighth Dimension ~ Group
Souls (Oceans of Light)
The Seventh Dimension ~ Living
Vortexes
The Sixth Dimension ~ Symbols;
Communication
The Fifth Dimension ~ Heaven; The
Plane of Light; Comeradery
The Fourth Dimension ~ The Astral
Plane
The Third Dimension ~ Where
Reality Is Etched in Stone, Sort of
The Second Dimension ~ Biological
Connection
The First Dimension ~ Realm of Quantum
Physics
https://illuminology.tumblr.com/post/55526706444/the-12-dimensions-explained
An energetic field
surrounds and infuses everything in the Cosmoverse, including the Earth
herself, single cell organisms, rocks and crystals, plants and animals, the
furniture and technological stuff in our homes, the vehicles we drive, because
each atom and cell has its very own minuscule torus. Everything is, in fact, ENERGY. (An amazing picture came into my mind as I
wrote these last words – trillions of these tiny tori making up the whole
Hu-man body; creating one huge torus which emanates from the Heart and the physical
and subtle bodies. Each toric cell emits
light, so these trillions of spotlights create this beacon of light that
each one of us is! A beautiful feeling of
Love rippled through me as I felt and saw myself as this beacon of pulsing
light.)
Imagine: - If we could see ourselves and our growing babies and
children in this way....
Imagine: - If we could see everyone who and everything that crosses our
paths as these beings of light – the light coming from trillions of toric cells
that make up our bodies...
Imagine: - If we could each expand the vision we have on ourselves
to include this beautiful energy that emits from and surrounds us with love and humility.
Image of a torus... and
a human as a beacon of light
We actually have no idea
just how we sparkle!
Each torus has energy
flowing into it from the Earth below us and from the Heavens/the Stars
above. The more we awaken to our own
light, the stronger the outer sheath of the torus becomes.
When we put the most
appropriate ‘goodies’ into all levels of our physical and subtle bodies, the auric sheath strengthens.
Any form of negativity has the effect of damaging the outer auric sheath as well as the auric sheath of each cell in our bodies, so it truly makes sense that we only allow health and life-giving food, water and 'medicine' into and onto our bodies.
At birth, our babies are
very much still bound to the energy field of the mother. The energy field is also called the Aura, so
when parents consciously prepare themselves for the conception of their babies,
the outer, auric sheath becomes stronger and stronger.
In order to support the strengthening
and stabilization of the energy field of our just born babies, there are vital
things that need to happen. Firstly, it
is vital, for many reasons, that the umbilical cord between the baby and its
placenta IS NOT CLAMPED AND CUT at the moment of birth, as has been the
practice in medically-managed childbirth for the last many decades. It is preferable that the baby is not
separated from its placenta until the cord has dried sufficiently at the
insertion site at the baby’s navel. This
is called Lotus Birth, a phrase and practice coined by Claire Day (****check),
and expounded upon and practised by Shivam Rachana. The impact on the baby is immense on all
sorts of levels! The most important one,
from the perspective being discussed, is that the cord does not fall until the
baby’s auric sheath is fully intact!
This begs the question: what
happens when babies are not given this opportunity? (This will be discussed later in the
book).
Another important consideration is that the newborn baby should remain with its mother from the moment of its birth - not taken away to examine it, as is routinely done in the present medically-managed delivery of our babies. It is also important to
realize that the sheath strengthens more and more over the first six weeks or
so of the baby’s life, especially when the baby is not exposed to discordant
and disharmonic energies within and outside the home. This is why many so-called primitive
societies isolate mother and baby for a period of six weeks so that nothing can
interfere is this delicate and important process and period. As with pregnancy, as already mentioned,
Torkum Saraydarian says that it is vital that mother and baby are not exposed
to any negativity whatsoever! (He
obviously did not live in a time of technology – computers, cell phones, iPads,
TV’s, Wi-Fi, microwaves, cameras, videos, etc!!!) This is a huge challenge in this day and
age! (Hence my long-time idea of a Tepee
Birthing Centre situated out in Nature!
It is not easy to choose to
‘drown’ your cell phone or your iPad, so that you can allow yourself to be less
impacted by the constant negative media and social media input from these and
other technological devices. Every miniscule
emotional reaction from these devices, as well as any other interaction with
the outside world, imprints onto the, apparently, blank slate of our babies as
they are growing in our womb. According
to Douwe van der Zee, our babies and children do not have the capacity to
reason their thoughts and actions – their brains are operating on Delta and
Theta levels of consciousness, which are directly linked to feeling, NOT
thought. The rational mind only develops
from after 6 years of age, when the Alpha waves appear on the scene.
If the Theta and Delta
states are developing and operating at birth (now scientifically proven), this
implies that they are also operating once the brain has grown during the early
stages of gestation, which would mean that growing babies, therefore, feel
everything their mothers feel, and absorb these unfiltered feelings into their
subconscious or unconscious at the moment they are felt! At a later time, once their rational, logical
mind has fully developed, it becomes increasingly difficult to access these
memories, because the adult consciousness operates on Alpha and Beta wave
levels. Only with this relatively new
understanding of brain wave states is it possible to change our understanding
of how and what can be imprinted onto or into the consciousness (in terms of
Theta and Delta waves) of our growing babies (or fetuses as the medical
fraternity calls them).
An aside, I had a complete change of heart midway through
my pregnancy with my first child.
(I forgive myself for any perceived wrongs to Edwin in this and
previous, parallel and future times and lives.)
It was not just a switch from allopathic medicine to natural medicine,
but a change in consciousness that began at the beginning of 1989, when I
participated in the Breakthrough and Joyspring trainings as facilitated by
Baruch Banai, on the suggestion of Hilary Katzeff when I was working at G.D.
Searle pharmaceutical company. Edwin
chose to come through me at that time because of my change of heart. He knew what he would have to go through,
because it was part of his self-chosen blueprint – what he needed to experience
for his own growth and evolution of consciousness – just as my experiences,
even though hectic, have been and still are the Blessings and Gifts leading to
my continuing growth and evolution of consciousness.
There are not mistakes!
Even when we think that we and others are to blame for experiences in our
lives. Our energy fields were primed at
the moment of our birth (by the position of the planets and stars and
constellations) to attract our self-chosen experiences. In some way, as is being
scientifically-proven, we are actually creating our own reality, and our own
reality is not necessarily the same as anyone else’s reality. My reality is tinted or tainted by my
perception of events and imprintings from this lifetime, past lifetimes (which
influence blueprint choices), parallel and future lifetimes.These become my filters through which I view my life as it unfolds for me.
There is a body of thought
that says that many parts or aspects of our SoulSelf are all living or experiencing
themselves simultaneously in this NOW moment in many different dimensions and
parallel universes. So, what we think is
past or future may actually happening right now.
I am still grappling with this concept, but the thought has been
conceived, so its birth is pending, unless I choose to abort it – but that is
NOT my new way!
Dr Michel Odent, in his
Primal Health Research talks about and takes into account the period of 9
months BEFORE conception takes place till a year after the birth of children as
being the period of highest impact in terms of the imprinting that lays down
the basic ‘ground work’, so to speak, for their life. Obviously, what happens at and through each
developmental stage is also important, but this primal period in the life of
each human creates the script that we use to play out for the rest of our lives,
until the time that we begin to consciously explore our unconscious motivations, drives, beliefs, filters, etcetera.
The more conscious we are
as individual parents about how we conceive, gestate, labour, birth, bond,
breastfeed and parent our children, the more consciously awake and aware our
children will be from a much earlier age.
Precociousness is a character trait in our children that is not, in my
opinion, ‘approved’ of in so-called civilized or western culture, because the
powers-that-be who run the planet do not, in any way, want anyone in the masses
to stand out. But, the more we support
our children to be born and develop in a much more complete way right from the
beginning of their lives, each one will have a much greater opportunity to unfold
as their Soul or Multi-dimensional SELF intends!
This particular lifetime
is one of the most growth-filled and evolving moments in our entire period of
recorded history. Never before has there
been this opportunity for such accelerated spiritual growth. Most humans are blissfully unaware of the
cosmic subtext that is impacting our daily lives on a moment-by-moment basis
and on all levels of our being. Our very
DNA is being mutated, from a cosmic energy-perspective, mostly without our
conscious awareness, resulting in a complete rewiring of our brain, and the
endocrine and electro-magnetic systems throughout our physical bodies. We can consciously use this time to be part
of the shifts that are taking place, or we can allow ourselves to remain
captive within the hypnotic slumber we were put into during the last DNA
manipulation at the fall of Atlantis, some 12000 years ago.
We are more, much more
than our religious and governmental leaders have ‘allowed’ us to believe that we
are. We each have a choice to Remember
Who We Truly Are, or NOT. Our choice,
one way or the other, will determine the kind of world our children will be born and have
to live in; whether they achieve greatness, or live mediocre lives; whether our
children are born conscious of their Light or are born in fear and
judgement. Our children are depending on
us to make the most appropriate choice for their future lives! Are we going to step up to the plate?!
It is a challenging time
we live in! It is not easy to choose to
‘drown’ your cell phone or your iPad, so that you can allow yourself to be less
impacted by the constant negative media and social media input from these and
other technological devices. Every miniscule
emotional reaction from these devices, as well as any other interaction with
the outside world, imprints onto the, apparently, blank slate of our babies as
they are growing in our womb. According
to Douwe van der Zee, our babies and children do not have the capacity to
reason their thoughts and actions – their brains are operating on Delta and
Theta levels of consciousness, which are directly linked to feeling, NOT
thought. The rational mind only develops
from after 6 years of age, when the Alpha waves appear on the scene.
If the Theta and Delta
states are developing and operating at birth (now scientifically proven), this
implies that they are also operating once the brain has grown during the early
stages of gestation, which would mean that growing babies, therefore, feel
everything their mothers feel, and absorb these unfiltered feelings into their
subconscious or unconscious at the moment they are felt! At a later time, once their rational, logical
mind has fully developed, it becomes increasingly difficult to access these
memories, because the adult consciousness operates on Alpha and Beta wave
levels. Only with this relatively new
understanding of brain wave states is it possible to change our understanding
of how and what can be imprinted onto or into the consciousness (in terms of
Theta and Delta waves) of our growing babies (or fetuses as the medical
fraternity calls them).
Once we, humans, begin to look
at the Creation of our Children and the Incarnation of Souls in this different and powerful way, a great
shift will occur on our Planet and throughout the Cosmoverse, as we move into the Golden Age of Aquarius! Let us see how we can take full Respons-ibility
for our Families and our Planet in a whole new Way!
[Visit your future child
in your dreams - by both partners holding hands as you both fall asleep.]
